Sunday, August 8, 2010

Revealing Dirty Talk

Talking dirty to your lover is one of those sexual behaviors people are uncomfortable with the first time they do it. You have to relax and understand that anything new is always awkward. To do it well means letting loose and exposing yourself, which always feels scary the first time.
Men love it when they know their lover is satisfied and we need to let him know what feels good.

It's always easy to describe to your lover what is happening during sex. Whisper in his ear how hot he makes you feel when his hand is playing with your _________or you can’t wait to feel his hard______inside your_______. Let him know when you are getting ready to have an orgasm and then whisper your erotic thoughts in his ear. This will have him thinking of you and craving more of you.

I myself was raised not use foul language…but now that I am grown; I understand that dirty bedroom talk needs to be raunchy. You lover doesn't want to hear the clinical term for his (or yours) private parts when talking dirty, the nastier the better! Practice, practice, practice...your man will enjoy the raunchy you!

For you I long, I lust, I desire
You quench my thirst and release my fire
For you I touch, I taste, I breathe
You satisfy my hunger and fill my need.

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Revealing Touch

“We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth."

We all remember the slogan, “reach out and touch someone.” All of us - young and old, single and in relationship - need touch. The art of touching encompasses non-sexual as well as sexual touch.

The world revolves around romance, and in a world of romance how to communicate all your passion and emotion to your lover, most effectively? The answer is 'touch.'
Actions, in many cases, communicate more than words. Physical contact is a prerequisite both for a healthy individual, and for a fulfilling, mature, loving relationship with a partner. Our bodies require touch: it relieves stress; it makes us happier and healthier. Touching promotes a healthy mind, body, and soul. A hug or cuddle can be the best medicine you can give or receive from your lover. I know for myself, I hug my family, my friends and people who I am being introduced to. It makes me feel good and I know it makes them feel good.

Sex always begins from a single touch and therefore makes it as affectionate as possible. Your touch should always be inviting for your lover not scary and painful. Once you have learned the basics of the art of sensual touching, extend your hands to awaken the romance and passion of your lover. Touch your lover, hold your lover, squeeze your lover…need your lover!

I want to hold you and never let go
I want to touch you nice and slow
I want to be naked and squeeze you tight
I want you to know that I need you
And you feel so right.